Friday, June 10, 2011

Hurt

Erasing someone from your mind is easy,
but getting them out of your heart is another story.
It only hurt when you start pretending it doesn't!

Will You Erase what we've experience and worked out together?

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Stress

Exam week equivalent to stress week.
Sometimes you think you can.
But sometimes you think you can't!
Stress until feel like crying.
No one understand, nobody know!
Stress until feel like want to hit the wall.
But still need my brain for exam!
Want to release the pressure.
But noway to release!
Pressure on myself,
Especially everyone having faith and hope on you telling you you can!
Not to compare to anyone else,
Just kind of tired!
Where's my faith and hope?
I need cares from you,
I need hugs from you,
I need someone to calm me down,
That person is YOU! Patrick Lim Joo-Hooi!

I Wish

I wish,
When I lost my courages, the one beside me is You BUT not my FRAGILE;
When my tears drop, the one beside me is You BUT not my LONELINESS;
Of course,
I understand your busy schedule,
I understand you have to rest,
BUT
Don't forget that Love is not a thing for you only when you're free!

You're the reason why I am still breathing!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

You

Every time you look at me, I smile =)
Every time you kiss me, I have to remember to breathe :*
Every time you say I love you, my heart skips a beat <3
AND
when I recall it back now, I realize that,
You're the reason why am I still breathing~
What about you?

Thursday, March 24, 2011

F*** Off

F*cking tired & fed up with all of them!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

M & S

missing Malacca..
or should I say was actually
missing the time we both went to Malacca..
Planning to go by or before June,
For 2nights perhaps..
Alone? Probably.. Highly possible..
too much of disappointment from you,
Even though I wish going together w you!
Even though so long as is w you,
I don't mind going anywhere.
BUT highly possible going alone!

Dec will be Singapore...
Probably I guess,
Perhaps more towards to disappointment again maybe..
Don't know!

too much of tears! too much of loneliness! too much of missing!
I'm totally losing myself.. because of you!
Forget it, sure you never realized it..
I guess i deserve to being lonely & alone!
I can feel it even more, after being together w you!

your time very PRECIOUS,
not using for wasting it w me! I KNOW!
you're important things & people, no longer me! I KNOW
Your priority isn't me, not me, already replaced by something else..

Don't even expect you got your FREE time,
to read anything about me!
to know everything about me!
to even understand me!

Monday, March 14, 2011

M

wanna go Malacca visit again.....
2 days...... 3 days.........
but I guess...
end up.....
will be going alone again this time..
probably...
DEFINITELY NOT GOING ON DEC. earlier than that..
sigh....
since when its start become this way.....
everything alone alone alone~
alone ranger.. no different when m single...
all alone.......

Monday, March 7, 2011

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Swollen

Eyes swollen
Tears dropping non-stop
from yesterday until now
Why must always the HARDER on me
I did anything wrong?
I deserve to endure everything &
take all the hard n' tough one?
Everything,
I give my everything to you!
But what i got from you?
I lose everything!
I never wanting it to end this way
But why
Why are you always say until
I'm the one who want this end!

Never

I never ever wanted to let go
I never ever wanted to break up
I never ever wanted to give up
BUT
nobody understand
my feelings
my pains
my hurts

Difficulties

You're not in my situation
so,
please don't just simply telling me
ignore, not to bother or forget it!
How will you feel if is you?
Did you ever think from my point of view?
I never compare,
because i know myself is
far far behind other peoples!
everything you asked for, i never say no!
but you never consider my feelings,
who are the selfish one here?
all you want is just make sure
i won't affect your work won't affect your family,
what about me? i know m tiny &
now only I know i was actually not important to you!
You don't really need me,
sticking w me, you're just
having more burdens, troubles..
you see,
now even we phone talk also your mum keep asking you go & sleep.
Even your mum also indirectly telling you,
I'm no longer suitable for you,
doesn't match you at all.
BUT
Most difficult decisions you've had to make in your life is
when you too tired to hold on, but too in love to let go.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

)=

Crying me,
Crying every night~
Dare not to let you know~
Unsecured, Uncertainty, Loneliness...............
I'm so weak, yea right!
I'm not a tough one as others see!
I'm fragile! Because of you!

Lonely

I guess..
LONELY love me,
thats why always stick with me!

I guess..
STUPID fall in love with me,
thats why never be smart!

I guess..
BAD LUCK likes me,
thats why exam always lack of luck!

I guess..
I meant to being so LONELY~
I guess..

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Part V

1. 其实不管你爱过多少人;不管你爱的多么快乐或痛苦;
到最后你不是学会了怎样去爱;而是学会了怎样爱自己。

2.爱人是很卑微,很卑微的,如果对方不爱你的话

3.人是无法在快乐中成长的;快乐使人肤浅,
我们在痛苦中成长,蜕变才会更了解人生

4.离别与重逢,是人生不停上演的戏,习惯了,也就不再悲怆。

“慢慢才知道很多东西是可遇而不可求的,很多东西只能拥有一次;
慢慢才知道人的性格,可以差异到如此之大;
慢慢才知道,两个天天在一起的人不一定是朋友,有可能什么都不是;
慢慢才知道,手机是别人有事找你时用的,并不是为交流感情的;
慢慢才知道,快乐常常来自回忆,而痛苦常常来自于回忆与现实的差距。”

“热恋时爱情,可以什么都不在乎。
只要你要,只要我有,因为我爱你,所以我愿意。
一旦感情平复了下来,心中就会出现接连不断的计较,为什么我付出的比你多;
为什么我什么都可以给你,你却要有所隐瞒...
然后 冷战,争吵,分手,和好,冷战...。
走得过的就是执子之手,走不过的就只能缅怀当初。”

“我想, 如果你有那么一点点喜欢我,就一点点,我也会有勇气去争取,
可是 我也不知道怎么去分辨,生怕、或许 ,我以为的表示 也只是自己的自作多情,
这样的自己就会显得那么的渺小、而力不从心。

当对某人放进了感情,那么在他面前,你就像个神经,会惶恐,不安,患得患失...”

“现在我对你很好,很好,很好,
你不需要,你无所谓,你不在乎,你不珍惜…
当某天你被伤害,想起我。
那时的我在也做不到像现在这样一如既往、不顾一切的对你好了…
因为那时的我,已经将你放低。
原来,放低一个人,最后是被逼出来的。”

“没有过不去的事情,只有过不去的心情。
确实是这样,很多事情我们之所以过不去是因为我们心里放不下,
比如被欺骗了报复放不下,被讽刺了怨恨放不下,被批评了 面子放不下。
大部分人都只在乎事情本身并沉迷于事情带来的不愉快的心情。
其实只要把心情变一下,世界就完全不同了。”

“人最软弱的地方,是舍不得。
舍不得一段不再精采的感情,舍不得一份虚荣,舍不得掌声。
我们永远以为最好的日子是会很长很长的,不必那么快离开。
就在我们心软和缺乏勇气的时候,最好的日子毫不留情地逝去了。”

“爱就是要努力在一起。不要相信日韩肥皂剧中所谓的因为不能让彼此幸福而离开。
是否想过,你们正是对方的幸福。
爱不是逃避,是努力。
不是逃避着给彼此幸福的责任,而是努力的实现让彼此幸福的义务。
当你说离开是为了不让对方受到伤害的时候,你已经给对方造成了最大的伤害。”

“能够慢慢培养的不是爱情,而是习惯。
能够随着时间得到的,不是感情而是感动。
所以爱是一瞬间的礼物,有就有,没有就没有。
但反过来说,爱和婚姻实际并不是一回事情,
并不是所有的爱情都要结婚的,也不是所有婚姻都有爱情的。”

Part IV

当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,
我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,
这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,
而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

“如果彼此出现早一点,也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣。
又或者相遇的再晚一点,晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了包容与体谅、善待和妥协,
也许走到一起的时候,就不会那么轻易地放弃,任性地转身,放走了爱情。
没有早一步也没有晚一步,那是太难得的缘份。”

现在男女之间的恋爱,总是答应太快,结果分手也快。
人性的规律是容易得到的就容易放弃。
凡是通过努力得到的,不管是感情还是物品,都会使人顿生珍惜之感。
所以在感情上,当有人追求时,需要有一些矜持,即使心里很爱,也需要给追求者时间和难度,
这样两人走到一起才会珍惜感情、地久天长。

有些人很坚强,喜欢在流泪的人面前,开导逗笑;
又无所不能,总是轻而易举地帮助别人解决难题;
为了理想,再苦再累也心甘情愿。
但面对自己的创伤,他们只会躲在角落里看着伤口变大;
只有面对最信赖的人时,才会丢盔弃甲,委屈地流下眼泪。
在哭过之后,笑着擦干眼泪,说,没关系,我可以做得很好。

“有些人不能在一起,可他们的心在一起;
有些人表面上在一起,心却无法在一起;
有些人从没想过要在一起,却自然而然地在一起;
有些人千辛万苦地终于在一起了,却发现他们并不适合在一起。
就算最后,我们没有在一起,至少爱,还是会在一起。
爱在一起,就在一起!”

有些人不能在一起,可他们的心在一起;
有些人表面在一起,但心却无法在一起;
有些人从没想过在一起,却自然而然的在一起;
有些人千辛万苦终于在一起,却发现 其实他们并不适合在一起…
虽然我们不能在一起了,但并不代表我不爱你了。
I'm sorry , But I Love You .

“两个人在一起久了,就象左手和右手,
即使不再相爱也会选择相守,因为放弃这么多年的时光需要很大的勇气。
也许生命中会出现你爱的人,但那终归是过客,你还是会牵着你的左手或者右手一直走下。
幸福有时候真的与爱情无关。”

“不要认为后面还有更好的,因为现在拥有的就是最好的;
不要认为还年轻可以晚些结婚,爱情是不等年龄的;
不要因为距离太远而放弃,爱情是可以和你一起坐火车的;
不要因为对方不富裕而放弃,只要不是无能的人,彼此鼓励可以让你们富足的;
不要因为外人反对而放弃,幸福是靠自己内心来感受的。”

“那一瞬间,你终于发现,那曾深爱过的人,早在告别的那天,已消失在这个世界。
心中的爱和思念,都只是属于自己曾经拥有过的纪念。
我想,有些事情是可以遗忘的,有些事情是可以记念的,
有些事情能够心甘情愿,有些事情一直无能为力,爱你是我的劫难。”

Part III

Never Make Somebody Your Everything, cause when they're gone, you've got nothing。
—— 无论如何,不能让某个人成为你的全部。若是有天他离开了,你将一无所有

“有个人,爱过了,就结束了;
有句话,说过了,就后悔了;
有道伤,痛过了,就麻木了;
有颗心,颤过了,就破碎了。
一段亲情,过密了,就断绝了;
一段友情,过近了,就稀释了;
一段爱情,过深了,就剧终了;
一段路口,过难了,就错选了。”
The greatest disadvantage of a person is not selfish, passionate, brutal, capricious, but a paranoid love do not love themselves.
—— 一个人最大的缺点不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性,而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人

记住,不是眼泪就可以挽回失去的。
所以不要轻易流下你的泪。
记住,不是伤心就一定要哭泣。
所以不要那么吝啬你的微笑 。
记住,不是你认为可以给予就给予。
所以不要那么轻易许下承诺。
记住,不是你做的不够好。
所以不要悲悯的以为自己一事无成。
记住,不是只有你一个人在努力。
所以不要轻易的就放弃。

“你到底 累不累;
微笑不累,生气才累 ;
单纯不累,复杂才累;
相思不累,单恋才累;
相守不累,独守才累;
相爱不累,相残才累;
专情不累,滥情才累;
友情不累,私情才累;
真诚不累,虚假才累;
纳友不累,树敌才累;
无私不累,自私才累;
得失不累,计较才累;
身累不累,心累才累……”

Single doesn't mean that you know nothing about love. In fact, being solo is wiser than being in a wrong relationship.
单身并不意味着你不懂爱情,事实上,单身要比陷入一段错误的爱明智得多。

如果发短信息给一个人,他一直不回,不要再发了,没有这么卑微的等待;
如果一个人开始怠慢你,请你离开他,不懂得珍惜你的人不要为之不舍;
不开心的时候白天看看蓝天,晚上看看夜色,广阔的天空自有属于我们爱;
保持一份自信,做最好的自己,宁可高傲地发霉,不要低调地恋爱。

【做 人的底线 你也认同吗?】
(1)不做第三者,即使再喜欢
(2)骗我可以,如果被我知道超过两次,请你有多远滚多远
(3)如果你拿我不当回事,我会以同样的方式对你
(4)我可以装傻,但别以为我真傻
(5)我可以容忍,但别超过我的底线
(6)我不是没脾气,只是不轻易发脾气
(7)任何的真话,我都能接受。

Part II

To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.
—— 宽恕、原谅并不代表忘记,也不代表赦免,而是放自己一条生路;
孤单不是有没有朋友,而是没有人住在你心里。

有时候,莫名的心情不好,不想和任何人说话,只想一个人静静的发呆;
有时候,突然觉得心情烦躁,看什么都觉得不舒服,拼命想寻找一个出口;
有时候,感觉自己与世界格格不入,曾经一直坚持的东西一夜间面目全非;
有时候,别人突然对你说,我觉得你变了,然后自己开始百感交集。

“你问我爱你值不值得,其实你应该知道,爱就是不问值得不值得。”——张爱玲

杯子寂寞,被倒进开水,滚烫的感觉,这就是恋爱的感觉。
水变温了,杯子很舒服,想这是生活的感觉。
水变凉了,杯子害怕,也许这就是失去的感觉。
水彻底的凉, 杯子难受,把水倒出。
杯子很舒服,杯子也掉在地上摔成一片一片的。
发现每一片上都有水的痕迹,它知道心里还爱着水,想再爱一次水,却不可能了。

“人吵架为什么嗓门会那么大,因为彼此心的距离太远了,要大声才会听见;
为什么相恋时的情侣都是细声细语的,我们旁人却听不清,
因为他们心在一起,所以无需大声也能彼此相通。”

“真正的爱情,不是一见钟情,而是日久生情;
真正的缘份,不是上天的安排,而是你的主动;
真正的自卑,不是你不优秀,而是你把她想得太优秀;
真正的关心,不是你认为好的就要求她改变,而是她的改变你是第一个发现的;
真正的矛盾,不是她不理解你,而是你不会宽容她……”

the supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved.
—— 生活中最大的幸福就是,坚信有人爱着我们。

这世界上,没有能回去的感情。
就算真的回去了,你也会发现,一切已经面目全非。
唯一能回去的,只是存于心底的记忆。
是的,回不去了,所以,我们只能一直往前。
“很爱你,却不知道该如何靠近你,所以觉得离开是可以的,并没有什么不同。
结果反正都是这样,是好是坏都不重要,重要的是我曾经迷恋你。”——安妮宝贝

我想给你幸福,却走不进你的世界 。
我想用我的全世界来换取一张通往你的世界的入场券,不过,那只不过是我的一厢情愿而已。
我的世界,你不在乎;你的世界,我被驱逐。
我真的喜欢你,闭上眼,以为我能忘记,但流下的眼泪,却没有骗到自己。

有个懂你的人,是最大的幸福。
这个人,不一定十全十美,但他能读懂你,能走进你的心灵深处,能看懂你心里的一切。
最懂你的人,总是会一直的在你身边,默默守护你,心疼你,不让你受委屈。
真正爱你的人不会说许多爱你的话,却会做很多爱你的事。

Part I

一个人的世界:
病了,一个人扛;
烦了,一个人藏;
痛了,一个人挡;
街上,一个人逛;
路上,一个人想;
晚上,一个人的床……
慢慢地习惯了一个人的生活,
变得沉默、变得冷落、没了想理、不想说、不想看……
我不是高傲,也不是胡闹,是厌倦了所有的依靠。

The minute you think of giving up, think of the reason why you held on so long.
——在你想要放弃的那一刻,想想为什么当初坚持走到了这里。

忘记一个人,并非不再想起,而是偶尔想起,心中却不再有波澜。
真正的忘记,是不需要努力的。
每个人的电话本里,都会有那么一个你永远不会打,也永远不会删的号码;
每个人的心里,都会有那么一个你永远不会提,也永远不会忘的人。
难道不是吗?

能够慢慢培养的不是爱情,而是习惯。
能够随着时间得到的,不是感情而是感动。
所以爱是一瞬间的礼物,有就有,没有就没有。
但反过来说,爱和婚姻实际并不是一回事情,
并不是所有的爱情都要结婚的,也不是所有婚姻都有爱情的。

《一封写给自己的信》:“亲爱的自己,不要抓住回忆不放,
断了线的风筝,只能让它飞,放过它,更是放过自己;
亲爱的自己,你必须找到除了爱情之外,能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西;
亲爱的自己,你要自信甚至是自恋一点,时刻提醒自己我值得拥有最好的一切。”

我想要一套小房子,能做你的小妻子,
一起提着菜篮子,穿过门前的小巷子,饭后用不着你洗盘子,
可你得负责抹桌子,再要个胖胖的小孩子,
可爱得就象小丸子,等你长出了白胡子,坐在家中老椅子,
可会记得这好日子,和我美丽的花裙子。

【幸福就是这样】
1.幸福就是每天早晨醒来一看表,竟然还能再睡半个小时。
2.幸福就是你去自习室上自习,一推开门发现自己想见的那个人也在这间教室里。
3. 幸福就是整理衣服时,在去年过冬的衣服里翻出好几十块钱。
4.幸福就是开心的听完一首歌,看完一场电影。
5.幸福就是每天早晨一睁眼,发现自己还活着。

“有时候,我们愿意原谅一个人,并不是我们真的愿意原谅他,而是我们不愿意失去他。
不想失去他,惟有假装原谅他。”——张小娴

爱,是恆久忍耐又有恩慈;
爱,是不忌妒;
爱,是不自夸,不张狂,不做害羞的事。
不求自己的益处,不轻易发怒,不计算人家的恶,不喜欢不义只喜欢真理。
凡事包容,凡事相信,凡是盼望,凡事忍耐。爱,是永不止息的!
—— 《哥林多前书》十三章-爱的真諦!

【张爱玲的爱情经典】
1、等待雨,是伞一生的宿命。
2、爱情是场梦,可有些人却总是睡过了头。
3、当你爱我时,我的心在沉睡;当我爱你时,你的心已冰封。
4、 离别和失望的伤痛,已经发不出声音了。
5、用一转身离开,用一辈子去忘记。
6、诺言的“诺”和誓言的“誓”都有口无心

will you?

3 months later,
will you still care about me at anytime anywhere?
1/2 year later,
will you still accompany me by my side silently for whole day long?
1 year later,
will you still PUJUK me & tickle me to sleep?
2 years later,
will you still feel nervous when see my tears drops like rain?
3 or 4 years later or more,
will you still have the courages daring to love me, treat me good & well without any reasons like you do now?

Monday, January 31, 2011

PLJH Image Search




Hey Babe,
Your baby too free got nothing to do,
Therefore, go google put in your name and click search image,
And,
This is the image i searched :P
p/s: is from your application = my space!

Happy CNY & Happy Hols



Friday, January 28, 2011

CNY )=

CNY coming,
aka
Fear nearer,
aka
Results coming~
so,
can I????

Monday, January 24, 2011

I'll Back Off So You Can Live

I’ll back off so you can live
Say it directly, looking at me
Say it looking into my eyes
Did you just say you wanted to break up?
Did you want to end it with me?
(I Know) You probably got a lady
(I Know) You probably got sick of me
Even though the tears are rushing to me
I’ll back off so you can live
That is all I can say
I’ll forget you so you can live better
So that you’ll be happy without me
The love that you tossed away, you can take it
Don’t even leave a trace behind and take it all
Don’t even say you’re sorry
Don’t worry about me
Your lips that told me tha you were going to leave
Why does it give me a reason to be angry today?
I need to stop you, the words don’t go out
And you are already moving far apart
(I know) You will forget me
(I know) I will really hate you
Even though you know everything
I’ll back off so you can live
That is all I can say
I’ll forget you so you can live better
So that you’ll be happy without me
The love that you tossed away, you can take it
Don’t even leave a trace behind and take it all
Don’t even say you’re sorry
Don’t worry about me
You! The reason I lived
You! Were all I wanted
You! It was me who only looked at you
Why? Why are you leaving?
Why? Why are you tossing me away?
If you were going to be like this
Why did you love me in the first place?
Do you happen to remember that day?
That day when we first met
I still remember it
The promise you made to me
That you will only care for me
That you will only protect me
That you will only love me
I believed your lies, I believed it
Did you really love me?
I’ll forget you so you can live better

G.NA Ft. Jun Hyung @ BEAST

Sunday, January 23, 2011

我们

今天的雨天,
我想起了........
许许多多

2010的我们,
我们从,
当初走在一起,
之后误会分离...
我们所经历的,
并不容易,
这是无可否认的!
累得在你面前,
泪也流不了;
误让你以为,
我的心真的冷死了,
而你的心,
彻底的伤得透彻了。
然后又走在一起...
没人知道,
我们为什么分开了,
没人知道,
我们又走回一起了,
有些朋友,
更以为我们从未开始过。
当那误会,
解开的那霎那,
是真的荒唐,
绝对的荒谬。
然后的一直地,走到现在~

我们...
互相依赖,相互依偎。
但我肯定的是,
我们...
并不是因为,
习惯了对方的存在而还走在一起;
我们走在一起是因为,
我们并不是因为寂寞而走在一起!

2011的我们会如何?
我,一定会好好地把握你,紧紧地抓住你,
不会再让你逃离,无论什么理由!
那你呢?

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

MY $$

I JUST WANT BACK MY MONEY
HOLLY SHIT
PISSED OFF
* OFF

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Valentine

If there were no words
No way to speak
I would still hear you
If there were no tears
No way to feel inside
And even if the sun refused to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still
have my heart until the end of time
You're all I need my love my Valentine
All of my life
I have been waiting for
All you give to me
You've opened my eyes
I've dreamed of this
a thousand times before
But in my dreams
I couldn't love you more
I will give you my heart
Until the end of time
And even if the sun refused to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still have my heart
until the end of time
Cause all I need is you my Valentine
You're all I need my love my Valentine

-Jim Brickman.:.Valentine-

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

LOVE...ING

I cannot do anything; every moment is spent remembering you
I don’t know what to do, I can’t stand it
After you left, my heart crumpled
All day long I thought of you leaving and it saddened me
I couldn’t do anything, I couldn’t even eat
Only tears flow in my empty heart
Even if I try to forget, try to erase, it isn’t easy
I cannot forget your smiling face
It’s so hard
Having loved you that much
Bringing me to all the good memories
Please take me your way
I know that you love me
So then you must come back to me
Don’t hesitate, please come back to me
Our love cannot end this easily
Turn around, I’m there
Run over to me and embrace me

Only one for you, you are the only one for me


*part of that song's lyrics*

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Believe

当你太爱一个人的时候,他就不会很爱你了,
因为他看准了你不会离开他,哪怕他把你伤得一塌糊涂,
他自信只要用一个爱字,就可以把一切抺平,这样一个人是不值得你去爱的。
这样的人太过自私和功利,爱自己远胜于爱你。
他的自尊、他的骄傲、他的需要都要比你的爱来得重要。
你尽管很爱他,但你永远是他最后一个选择,而他的心思要用在那些得不到的人和事上。

Anyway, I BELIEVE that you're not such a person!
Because,
I KNOW you're not!
I've experienced & experiencing
your heart, your love & your life all the time & all these time (=
sad happy funny desperate etc

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥YOU♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

阿姨说



阿姨说,生气的时候不要吵架,可以不说话,不洗他衣服,但是,不要和他吵架。
阿姨说,和男人吵架了不要跑到外面去张扬,他向你迈进一步,你就向他走两步。
阿姨说,家是女人的大本营,发生什么事情都不要走。因为,回来路的很难。
阿姨说,两个人在家不要老想着面子,两个人过日子,面子很重要?那在外面怎么生活?
阿姨说,不管一个男人多有钱,他还是希望可以看到干干净净的你在干干净净地家等他。
阿姨说,好男人很多,他不会去抱别的女人。但是这种社会,很多坏女人会伸手去抱你的男人。
阿姨说,女人一定要出去工作,不管钱赚得多或是少,工作就是自己人生价值的体现。你一直在家,男人有机会在你面前说:“是我在养你。”
阿姨说,你在外面工作,家里的事情再忙也要做,不然花自己的钱请个钟点工。家里的事情一定要好好做,小孩也要好好教。
阿姨说,他为你做了意想不到的事情,你可以感动,可以夸奖,千万不要嘲讽地说“太阳从西边出来了啊”,如果这样,以后他不会为你做任何事情。
阿姨说,谁都不是谁的另一半,你的想法不说出来谁会了解?需要什么感受,讨厌什么事情,你告诉别人,别人才会懂。
阿姨说,他的父母也是你的父母,就算他的父母对你不是很好,你也要对他们好。因为他们是他的父母。
阿姨说,决定和什么人在一起了,就不要去埋怨苦日子,既然你选择了他,就不要去埋怨他。
阿姨说,那么有钱有什么用,人呢?人在哪里?
阿姨说,我们这辈子能花多少钱?不要买什么奢侈品,过得幸福就好。
阿姨说,不要唬小孩“妈妈不要你”,不要生气地时候把小孩推出门,如果他真的不见了,你会很痛苦。
阿姨说,不要打小孩,更不要在外面打。
阿姨说,打打杀杀的爱很刺激,也很浪漫。但是,不现实。普通就好。
阿姨说,什么都是缘分。
阿姨说,生命无常,要好好珍惜每一天,珍惜自己的家庭。
阿姨是我的房东,她总说,我就像她女儿一样。她说,她年轻的时候,她外婆总是教她怎么做好一个女人。
她和叔叔在一起有四十多年。
她说,她是先结婚后恋爱的。
她说,叔叔年轻的时候很穷,别人给他一颗糖,他都小心翼翼带回来,拗一半给她吃。
她说,她年轻的时候不懂得好,觉得叔叔本来就应该这样。
她说,有人想欺负叔叔,她生气地冲过去打人一顿。
她说的时候哈哈大笑,我感动得双眼模糊。

Friday, January 7, 2011

First Class of 2011

First day of the class...

Take into consideration of my previous sem papers,
Decided to take only ONE paper,
Which is P2 - Corporate Reporting
Under Mr.Navzar Tara

Although yawning in class 2 to 3 times,
But I'm not sleepy,
Perhaps air-cond too warm!

His class was interesting!
As,
His method was 90% similar w
Mr.Keith Farmer method!
Which is,
no short cut, no tips, cover everything, overall!
Other than,
the speed of speaking a little bit too fast!
Talk about slang problem,
I aint got any!
I'm very okay w his english (=

I choose the correct one!
FOR SURE!

And by the way,
Thanks to Patrick Lim !
Thanks for accompanying baby for class!
Love you!

Monday, January 3, 2011

You & Me

My heaven, is being in ur arms. My dreams, seeing ur face, Ur smile is my drug. Ur Kisses is my only addiction. Your love is my direction.
When I first saw u, my heart melted, when we dated I saw the love in ur eyes, when I woke up in ur arms, I wanted to spend eternity with u
If I had been there to wipe ur tears then no one else would be around, if I had been there to cradle ur fears we'd still be together now.
heart to heart, nose to nose, lips to lips, && there we froze.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Y.O.U

Love is weakest when: There is more doubt than trust.
Love is strongest when: you learn to trust despite all doubts.
Do you know that,
I find myself writing about you in random places.
I just want,
Someone who i don't have to keep secrets from,
Someone who will love me for everything that i have.
So can you,
Kiss me in the rain,
Love me in the dark,
Hold me until the end, and
Never break my heart.
As,
None of your scars will make me love you any less
&
once in a lifetime you meet a person who takes your breath away.
not because you want them to, but because they're meant to.
And last,
I hope I've made a difference in your life;
significant enough to cross your mind at night.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Cockroach

The cockroach
so so pity..
2 hours before 2011! He died!
*i guess it's a HE*
The murderer is Patrick Lim!
Then the stupid murderer,
Throw the cockroach in the toilet bowl n' flush away!
Caused me not dare to use toilet ~.~ T_T
Not my bad! Not my fault!
Who ask YOU (the cockroach) get into the wrong house!
And make me so embarrassed,
Shout, scream, nervous, shock!
May god bless you!
Have a safe journey to heaven!
I will ask Patrick Lim to pray for you everyday!